Essential Japanese Customs and Etiquette for Toronto Travellers

If you are planning a trip from Toronto to Japan, you’re in for a treat! From the bright lights of Tokyo to the serene temples of Kyoto, Japan is a captivating blend of ancient traditions and modern innovation. However, as with any international travel, understanding and respecting local customs can enhance your experience and show appreciation for your host country. Here’s a guide to Japanese customs and etiquette that will help you navigate your visit with confidence and respect.

1. Bowing: A Key Gesture of Respect

In Japan, bowing is a cornerstone of social etiquette. Unlike in Toronto, where a handshake or a casual nod often suffices, bowing is the standard way to greet someone, say thank you, or apologize. A slight head bow is appropriate for informal settings, while a deeper bow shows more tremendous respect.

Tip: When in doubt, follow the lead of the person you’re greeting. If you’re unsure, a polite nod with a smile is always appreciated.

2. Shoes Off, Slippers On

Canadians are used to taking off their shoes indoors during winter, but in Japan, this practice is a year-round ritual. In homes, traditional ryokans (inns), and even some restaurants, you’ll be expected to remove your shoes and wear provided indoor slippers. Special bathroom slippers may also be available in restrooms.

Tip: Wear clean socks without holes, as they’ll be on display more often than you might expect!

3. Dining Etiquette: More Than Chopsticks

Toronto’s diverse food scene might have prepared you for chopsticks, but in Japan, there’s more to dining etiquette. Avoid sticking chopsticks upright in a rice bowl—this is associated with funerary practices. Also, passing food directly from chopsticks to chopsticks is a no-no, as it mimics a ritual from cremation ceremonies.

Tip: Slurping noodles, which might seem impolite back home, is acceptable and even encouraged in Japan. It’s a way to show you’re enjoying your meal!

4. Public Behaviour: Silence is Golden

Toronto’s bustling streets and lively TTC rides can be noisy, but in Japan, public spaces are often surprisingly quiet. Talking loudly on public transportation or making phone calls is considered rude. Similarly, eating while walking—common during street festivals—is generally frowned upon.

Tip: In public, try to keep conversations low and avoid using your phone except for urgent matters.

5. Gift-giving and Omiyage

Gift-giving in Japan is an art form, and it’s a thoughtful gesture to bring a small gift, or omiyage when visiting someone. Popular items include packaged treats or unique goods from your hometown. If visiting Japan from Toronto, consider bringing maple syrup or local artisan products.

Tip: Presentation matters in Japan. Wrap your gift nicely, and avoid overly casual packaging.

6. Onsen Etiquette: Embrace the Bath Culture

Japan’s onsen (hot springs) are a must-try experience, but they come with specific rules. Before entering the communal bath, you must thoroughly wash and rinse yourself. Swimwear is not allowed, as onsen are enjoyed in the nude.

Tip: Tattoos, which are often associated with the Yakuza (organized crime groups), might restrict access to some traditional onsens. If you have tattoos, look for tattoo-friendly onsens or private bathing options.

7. Respect for Shinto Shrines and Buddhist Temples

Japan’s spiritual sites are breathtaking, but they require a level of decorum. At Shinto shrines, it’s customary to cleanse your hands and mouth at the purification fountain before approaching. When praying, bow twice, clap twice, and bow once more. At Buddhist temples, silence is valued, and photography might be restricted.

Tip: Avoid stepping in the center of a torii gate (shrine gate), as this is believed to be a passageway for the gods.

8. Tipping: A Cultural Difference

Unlike in Toronto, where tipping is an expected part of dining and service culture, tipping in Japan is not customary and can even be considered rude. Exceptional service is the standard, and your gratitude is best expressed with a sincere “Arigato gozaimasu” (thank you very much).

Final Thoughts

Travelling to Japan from Toronto is a journey into a fascinating culture that values respect, harmony, and thoughtfulness. By embracing these customs, you’ll not only enjoy a smoother trip but also connect more deeply with the people and traditions of Japan. So pack your bags, brush up on your bowing, and prepare for an unforgettable adventure!

by Ryan Howse-Hackl, Toronto Man in Japan

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